Yeah, we have tried REALLY hard, even when it looked like we weren't going to make it, to keep their lives as normal as possible. We wanted them both to know that they were loved and it had nothing to do with them. They don't even know that we were thinking about getting divorced. They know that we were arguing a little more than usual, but even most of them happened after bed. Neither of us yelled so I know there is no way they know anything other than the tension that was there. That is how I wanted it too....no need to have a 3 and 5 year old involved more than absolutely necessary in an adult situation.
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Fun pictures! :) Looks like your girls have been having some fun despite all the stuff you've been going through. :)
Yeah, we have tried REALLY hard, even when it looked like we weren't going to make it, to keep their lives as normal as possible. We wanted them both to know that they were loved and it had nothing to do with them. They don't even know that we were thinking about getting divorced. They know that we were arguing a little more than usual, but even most of them happened after bed. Neither of us yelled so I know there is no way they know anything other than the tension that was there. That is how I wanted it too....no need to have a 3 and 5 year old involved more than absolutely necessary in an adult situation.
That is the one thing in this situation that I know with 100% certainty that I've done right...not involving them too much.
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