What should I do with Taylor?

I picked the girls up from daycare a little early yesterday because I had a meeting with my lawyer that got out earlier than I anticipated. I thought we would have a little extra time together to play and just spend time together (we rarely get to do this during the week.) On our way home Taylor asks me if Miss S (one of her favorite teachers) talked to me today. I told her she hadn't and asked why. Taylor's response was, "She told me she was going to talk to you today about me not listening to her." Now remember when she lied about being bad before? Of course I didn't quite believe her since this is one of her favorite teachers, but by no means do I think my kids are perfect angels so I didn't totally blow her off either. I explained to her that I was going to call Miss S and if Taylor was lying she was going to get in big trouble for lying. I gave her one more chance to tell me the truth if she was lying and she again told me that she had been being bad. So of course I immediately call Miss S who says that yes Taylor has had a listening problem. To the point where she tells Taylor she needs to come back in the room 3 & 4 times and Taylor still doesn't so Miss S has to go out into the hall and physically bring her back into the room. Once in there she stays, but what is with the not listening? I asked her if she was good for Miss C (she is the teacher in the morning and most of the afternoon) and she said yes, she was just bad for Miss S.

So of course this morning I pull Miss C aside and my aunt who runs the daycare and ask Miss C if she too is having problems with Taylor. She assures me that she does not and that Miss S is having problems with a lot of the kids since it is a blended romm in the afternoons. She thinks Taylor isn't getting enough attention from Miss S who is constantly disciplining the older kids for hitting someone or taking toys, etc. and that Taylor sees that that's how they get attention. So Miss C, my aunt and I all took Taylor aside to explain to her that is not the way to get attention and that is not the attention she wants. My aunt told her to tell Miss S when she wants attention and to tell Miss S that she needs her aunt. My aunt said she would smother her with love, hugs and kisses, but only if she doesn't act up for Miss S anymore. Hopefully it will be under control now and after talking with them I think it will be. I guess I should be grateful because Miss S has 4 kids who get physically violent with her. At least Taylor isn't hitting her, spitting on her or kicking her.

In the meantime Taylor has to go to bed one hour early the rest of the week and is not aloud to watch TV until Sunday. If her behavior continues she will have toys taken off of her also and different things that I haven't come up with yet. If that time comes I'm going to need all the veteran parents input. Is this normal? I knew she was going to learn some bad behaviors at daycare, but I'm concerned about her interest in being labeled the "bad kid."

Here is a picture of her haircut from Saturday. We got it cut shorter this time with all the heat and our no AC situation, I thought it would be cooler for her this way.

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